Bullying

"There will always be people who will love you and there will be people who will hate you." It doesn´t matter from which side you take it but I know that for both of this groups of people you mean something. Those who love you, love you because you are different and those who hate you also hate you because you are different. You just have to choose which ones you listen to. Because some kids change theirselves because of people who hate them for who they are. They want to change and let the people crush them with speeches that may be true or not. I know that it might be hard sometimes. I wasn´t actually bullied but there were times when kids were mean to me. I hope that not everybody experienced that. So I discovered how you fight this. I thought that you shoud like ignore it and they will stop. But they won´t. Because when you don´t say anything then they think they can keep doing it and you get hurt from it. Some people just ignore it and don´t really care. But today my friend told me to stand up for myself. Yes. But this doesn´t mean arguing. You stand up for yourself and not let them crush you. But that doesn´t mean saying bad things about the other one. You just show that they aren´t right in everything and that you are strong enough to stand up for yourself. Because we are fighters.

Now....I know that some of us rather don´t say anything so they wouldn´t get hurt. I used to imagine the worst that could happen when I was afraid. And then I wasn´t afraid anymore The worst thing that could happen in this situations is actually that the other one would say some more bad things about you. I mean...why are we afraid of other people? We are equal. Nobody is more than anybody. I claim that the reason is that some people just can say their opinions more often and they are more confident.

Stand up for yourself and don´t let anything crush you. Because in your world nothing crushes you.

Do something they would never expect you to do. Stand up for yourself.

#bullying #fighter