The new years hope

So we are going to have a new year, new you, new chances.......I am sure you heared this a thousand times. Yeah, you can change but why didn´t you do it trough the year. I mean..you can change your life every day. I always started my diet on monday because it was a new week. You want to change yourself because it is a new year. But people I see that you want a normal start. A monday, a new week or a new month. To have it somehow round and complete. But if you start changing your life on a regular day it won´t be just a regular day. It will be special for you because you will know that it was the day you changed your life.

I thought that I could give you some advice, life lessons I learned in these four months of high school. I still got about three years so I am sure I will be a lot smarter in the future.

-You don´t need a boyfriend/girlfriend to be happy. Just hang around friends, they will cheer you up any time you have something on your mind. Girls and boys leave. Friends stay.

-Happiness is learning to appreciate what you have.

-Love is sometimes harder than it seems to be. Dangerous and heartbreaking. But we kinda like to have it in our lives. You have to see the good things about it too. However it is often about letting go and forgetting. When the other person doesn´t feel the same way.

-" Words don´t hurt you until you let them." Don´t care about what people think. You´ll lose yourself.

-Get a life. I have to work on that too. I watch all the shows and I don´t live my own life. You can talk to people online but if you have the chance to talk to them personaly then do it. Yes you have to dream the things but actually do them too.

- Be who you are. That is kinda hard sometimes. However there are all those people who love you to remind you who you are. They will notice if you start acting weird.

- Always tell people the truth. But this is not that easy too. You have to pay attention so you don´t hurt people. If you think lying to your friends won´t hurt them you are wrong. t actually hurts them more if you lie to them.

-Try to live your life unplanned. I mean.....do the homework but you should just hang out sometimes. Don´t stress that much. Have to work on that too. Because in the end all you have is just memories. That is the only thing you can take with you to heaven. Because you don´t need knowledge there.

-Try to stay a kid as long as you can. I mean. Try to stay positive. With growing up there comes a lot of bad stuff this reality has. I wanna protect you from all those bad things.

-Hope and believe. Yeah. I know. Some people don´t believe and they aren´t positive. They are afraid that they will be disappointed. I feel you. But "I would rather have sunny days and then one little storm than look to the cloudy grey sky every day."

Life is a complete mess. Ful of ups and downs. But it is still beautiful as I see it. Like mountains. You have to go through a big forest to see the great view. And as hard you got up to the top, you can get as easily down. But in the end you will end up living in a paradise. So it is still worth it.

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