Shine bright like a star...

"But at least you are pretty"....these are the words which absolutely kill me because I know the thoughts and the feelings behind them. It is not being good enough and just feeling bad about yourself because you don´t look like other people. Okay maybe now you are going to kill me as well but I am going to tell you the ugly truth. You are never going to look like those people on the photos, the "perfect girls". You know why? Because those girls aren´t real- the photos are photoshopped or those girls put on a bunch of make-up or take a long time getting ready in the morning just to look like that. Now I don´t want to be rude because I am not saying that the most of the pretty girls are like this. I am just saying that there are some of these girl. I know that mostly it is about your body, but sometimes it is about yourself as a whole piece of a person. You just hate everything. I don´t know how to destroy that feeling, but I am gonna tell you how I got comfortable with my body and appearance without changing, losing any weight or putting on some make-up.

I wanted to change or either lose weight because I wanted to impress someone, but I decided not to care about what I look like because I know that is not my major strenght. I decided to impress someone with who I am on the inside, with my crazyness. Because I think that my energy, happiness and personality makes me who I am. And I feel good doing what I usually do, acting how I would usually act. Find the things that make you YOU and be that person.

I did some research the other day - what guys like in a girl, what makes a girl atractive. And I was expecting like a perfect body and things like that. The things every girl would expect. And the most common answers were smiling and being yourself. That is all you need. Just be yourself, act like YOU. Guys don´t care about your appearance as much as about who you are on the inside. Just because there are some dumbasses who want to do stuff...you know.....that doesn´t mean there aret any normal guys. Well they aren´t normal because I claim 95% of guys do stupid things and have a great sense of humor. :D That is what makes guys guys. So as we don´t really focus on their cars, muscles and blue eyes with blond hair....they don´t really focus on what shape you are or how much you weight.

The moment you start looking at yourself as beautiful, you start looking at yourself as a whole person - you look at your whole self and not just the little parts you don´t like that is the moment you gain your beauty.

You see...you have all these flaws and virtues, but all of these together make you YOU...and everybody is curious about your true, real whole self.

"There are stars which shine brighter than others. But we don´t really tend to look at those ones. We mostly look at the brighter ones. Despite this being said we don´t really care which ones shine or which ones don´t. We just look at the whole dark night sky and admire its beauty." This is the way people should look at other people and I think they really do. Poeple look at your bright sides...which shine the most and the flaws are just other parts of the sky. Please realise that you are beautiful. Unique and beautiful. You are YOU...beYOUtiful.(:

#beuty #youarebeautiful #loveyourself